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Wednesday, June 29, 2016

Surah Fatiha - Rediscovering the Fatihah





  • Hadith Qudsi about Surah Fatihah:


  • Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu anhu reported: I heard Rasoolullahi sallalahu alaihi wasallam narrating a Hadith Qudsi in which Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'aala has said, "I have divided Surah Fatihah into two halves between Me and My slave, and my slave will receive what he asks. So, when His slave says Alhamdulillahi Rabbil Aalameen (Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the universe), Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says "My slave has praised Me!". 

    And when His slave says Arrahmanirraheem (The Compassionate, the Merciful), Allah Subhanahu  Wa Ta'ala says "My slave has extolled Me!" 

    And when His slave says Maliki Yaumiddeen (Master of the Day of Judgement), Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says "My slave has glorified Me! (or) entrusted Me!" 

    And when His slave says Iyyaka Na'budu was iyyaka nasta'een (You alone do we worship and You alone do we seek for help), Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says "This is between Me and My slave, so whatever he asks, it will be granted. 

    And when His slave says Ihdinas Siratal mustaqeem siraatal ladhina an'amta 'alaihim ghairil maghdhubi 'alaihim wa laddaallin (Guide us to the straight path, the path of those upon whom You have bestowed favours and not of those who have incurred Your wrath and nor of those who have gone astray), Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says, "This (part of the Surah is exclusively) for My slave and my slave shall receive whatever he has asked for.

    [Source: Sahih Muslim]




    بِسْمِ اللَّـهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ
    ﴿١﴾ الْحَمْدُ لِلَّـهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ ﴿٢﴾ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ ﴿٣﴾ مَالِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّينِ ﴿٤﴾ إِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِينُ ﴿٥﴾ اهْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ الْمُسْتَقِيمَ ﴿٦﴾ صِرَاطَ الَّذِينَ أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيْهِمْ غَيْرِ الْمَغْضُوبِ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا الضَّالِّينَ ﴿٧﴾ـ




  • In the name of Allah (God), the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
  • All the praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds (universe).
  • The Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful
  • Lord of the Day of Judgment.
  • You (Alone) we worship, and You (Alone) we ask for help.
  • Guide us to the Straight Path.
  • The path of those You have blessed, not (the path) of those who earned Your Anger, nor of those who went astray.




    Fatiha is literally the opener because when we understand Fatiha, we understand faith.

    1. الْحَمْدُ لِلَّـهِ

  • HAMD has two meanings:
    1. Praise مدح
    2. Gratitude شكر

    Thanks/gratitude is usually in return of something done for us. e.g. we thank someone who has done a favour for us. Thanks is usually a reaction and acknowledgement.

    Praise can be for anything that we find beautiful e.g. If we see a beautiful house, we praise it. Praise can even be fake in order to get some benefits e.g. we praise someone who has authority over us just to avoid getting into trouble or to exploit them for personal benefits.

    Sometimes we praise without thanking or thank without praising. Hamd is a combination of praise and gratitude so it is always genuine and sincere. Moreover, Hamd does not have to be a reaction to something, but it is a constant internal feeling.

    Why didn't Allah say Madah and Shukar? 
    The best kind of speech is that which is brief yet conveys the full meaning. Allah used ONE word hamd instead of using separate words for praise and gratitude. 
    Secondly, saying Madah wa shukar would imply that BOTH do not have to be present simultaneously, so WA makes it optional. Hamd necessitates that BOTH have to be present at the same time. 

    Alhamdulillah is not a verbal statement. It is an attitude towards life. It means as bad as things might seem, I know there is wisdom in it and I know it will be best for me , and I thank you for it. It forces us to think positively. When we praise and thank Allah in every situation, we stop complaining about things and are forced to think positively. This provides us with the right lens to see and appreciate Allah.

    Hamd is a Noun!

    1. Nouns do not have a tense while verbs have tenses. Allah used hamd which is a noun so it is constant, permanent and timeless. Verbs are temporary and associated with زمان. Hamd of Allah has always been there and will always be there. It is eternal. 

    2.  A verb needs a subject/doer who performs the verb, but noun is not dependent on any doerAllah did not talk about hamd in a way that it depends on us. This makes us humble because we realise that Allah is independent  غنى of our praise. 

    Moreover, Allah did not issue a command to us to praise Him. If Allah had given us a command, the ball would be in our court and the existence of HAMD would depend on our action. Allah merely said praise BELONGS to Allah, even if perform Hamd of Allah or not.

    Why didn't Allah say انّ الحمد للّه for emphasis?

    In Arabic, there are two kinds of sentences:
    1. Jumla Khabriya(informative sentences) e.g. I bought a chair, the program starts after Maghrib etc.
    Information could be right or wrong.

    2. Jumla inshaiya(emotional sentences/expressive sentences) e.g. Oh man, Oh my God etc.
    Emotions cannot be right or wrong. They cannot be refuted.

    Alhamdulillah can both be an information (Praise belongs to Allah) or an emotion when we say Alhamdulillah spontaneously as an expression/feeling.
    INNA is used ONLY in informative sentences and cannot be used in emotional sentences. If Allah had used Inna, Alhamdulillah would have been limited to Khabriya only. By excluding inna, Alhamdulillah becomes flexible and we can interpret this as Inshaiya or Khabriya.

    Why didn't Allah add emphasis by saying lillahil Hamd?

    In Arabic, whenever we say a sentence in an unusual way by changing the sequence, it is used for emphasis(e.g. instead of saying I went to school, we say TO school I went). This is just to add emphasis and imply that I went nowhere except school.  


    Alhamdulillah= Hamd belongs to Allah
    lillahil Hamd= Hamd ONLY belongs to Allah (اختصاص), not to anyone else

    Sometimes Allah says lillahil hamd: it means Allah is emphasising that it does not belong to anyone else. This is usually said in a conflict, where people have a disagreement about something. Allah only needs to say lillahil Hamd when people are debating about who Hamd truly belongs to e.g. Allah says lillahil hamd in Surah Jathiya which is about people who are doing Shirk.
    Surah Fatihah, in contrast, is not a debate. Surah Fatihah appeals to our fitrah saleema, and this argument doesn't even exist in our pure fitrah. There is no need to emphasise  here as the concept of Hamd belonging to Allah comes naturally to us. Allah introduced hamd to us in such a way that we are already aware of it and we don't need any convincing. 

    Why did Allah use Allah instead of any of his other names? 

    How do your praise Allah in one word, acknowledging every single one of His attributes? This is only possible by using Allah, as this would automatically include ALL sifaat of Allah. Allah is introducing himself in the Fatiha so instead of using any of His descriptive names, He used his proper name to introduce himself. 

    Allah comes before Rabb ul Aalimeen in Fatihah because people have different ideas of rabb in different religions and they might have not appreciated Tawheed by the use of rabb alone. So, Allah negates shirk through the use of "Allah" e.g. In the story of Musa AS, the magicians professed imaan to Allah and said: aamanna bi rabbil alimeen but Firaun also called himself rabb. He thought they are referring to him, so they clarified by saying rabbi harooni wa musaa and THEN it became clear. 


     رَبِّ  



    RABB رب is primarily someone who owns something and is in charge of it. It is not necessary for someone to be an owner and in charge of something simultaneously. But, Rabb has both meanings simultaneously. It can be translated as Master.

    Rabb is the OWNER (Malik مالك)

    Rabb is the one who is in charge and in full control (SAYYID سيّد)

    Other meanings of Rabb:

    Rabb is someone who ensures the growth and takes care of something (MURABBI مربّى).
    Allah not only owns us but He also takes perfect care of us. Allah does Tarbiyyah of the whole Universe i.e. He maintains the growth, progress and development of everything.

    Rabb is the one who maintains existence and ensures things stay intact and don't fall apart (QAYYIM قيّم), just like a gardener that maintains/takes care of delicate plants. If Allah stopped taking care of us and the world for even a second, then everything will fall apart.

    Rabb is the one who gives gifts and benefits on top of what the other person deserves (MU'NIM منعم). We do not earn or are entitled to everything we receive, but rather Allah blesses us beyond measure. This means that if we received the gift, we should be grateful because we did not deserve it. It also means that if we didn't receive the gift, we have no right to complain as we didn't earn our right to it. 

    We fail to appreciate the blessings and gifts we have been given. The whole world and all it contains has no comparison to what Allah has given us. Allah's gifts are priceless and there is no way we can pay for them. e.g. we won't exchange our hands or our legs for even the whole wealth in the world, as it is a priceless gift. 

    When we put all of these meanings together, we get the complete meaning of Rabb.

    RABB-ABD RELATIONSHIP

    There are two partners in every relationship e.g.employee-employer relationship, teacher-student relationship, parent-child relationship etc. Similarly, when Allah calls himself Rabb, it establishes our relationship with Allah as His ABD. We have a RABB ABD relationship with Allah.

    We unfortunately have a very negative connotation of slavery in our society. Human beings have an innate desire to be free from authority, and they hate being told what to do. We have a desire to be free. So, if we hear the word "slavery", we want to run miles away from it. We hate being bossed around by teachers, our boss, our parents etc. We like freedom and independence. 

    In reality, our worldly concept of "freedom" is a delusion. None of us are truly free. Some of us are enslaved by money, some by culture, some by power, some by peer pressure  some by fashion and so on. If we choose to become slaves of our Creator, it saves us from slavery of the creation. If we submit ourselves to Allah, it frees us from the pressure of our culture, society, people, trends etc. 

    ABD IS A SLAVE

    Abd is a SLAVE, and not a servant or a worshiper. 

    Worship is performed at a certain time and place but slavery is not restricted to a specific time, rather it is a state of being. A slave does exactly what the master wants to do, and whenever he wants him to do it, and salah is merely a practical demonstration of that. Acts of worship are merely supposed to reinforce the fact that we are an abd. But we think that by performing worship, we have fulfilled our duty to Allah so now we can spend the rest of the day however we like. 

    Servant is also the incorrect translation as service is usually performed in exchange of something e.g. people work for different organisations with a certain job description in exchange for something. Service is usually voluntary and we can negotiate the terms and conditions. Slavery is usually voluntary. We can only be a true slave if we know what the master wants from us. That is why we ask Allah to guide us to the straight path.

    Dimensions of Slavery

    According to Ibn Tayyimah, slavery includes the following dimensions:

    1. Love
    The slavery of Allah is beautiful as Allah is the best master. This slavery is not enforced but it is out of recognition and desire for Allah. To be a slave of Allah, we need to love Allah above and beyond everything else.

    2. Obedience
    There is no obedience to the creation while disobeying the creator. 

    3. Sincerity
    Every act and deed should be purely for the sake of Allah. 

    4. Tawakkul
    We have to develop absolute  tawakkul in Allah that whatever happens has chair in it. If we place our trust in people, we will always be disappointed but if we trust Allah,we will never face disappointment

    5. Terms of slavery 
    Allah decides the standards and conditions of slavery and we do not negotiate with Allah.

    الْعَالَمِينَ

    عالم= world
    Plural: عوالم= worlds
    عالمين= "een" is used to refer to creatures of intellect ذوى العقول  e.g. saaliheen, siddiqeen, saabireen, shakireen, saaiymeen etc. This does not refer to creatures without intellect.

    So, a more appropriate translation would be: Rabb of different people/different nations/generations/cultures. Different generations and nations can be referred to as different worlds. e.g. when we visit a different country or converse with someone from a different generation, we say it is an altogether different world. Allah cares about all the different worlds of people, as Allah created all of them. We do Hamd of Allah for being the Rabb of all creation. 

     2. الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ 

    رحم= Womb of the mother. 
    In the womb of a mother, the baby doesn't have to worry about anything e.g. food, drink, survival, sleep etc.
    Everything is being completely taken care of. The mother is taking care of every need of the child. The child is enveloped in the care and love of the mother. The child is not even capable of fully knowing and appreciating the thousands of ways in which he is being protected and taken care of. Allah loves us more than our mothers, and it is impossible for us to fathom Allah's Rahma entirely. Allah is constantly taking care of us in countless unimaginable ways, but we are just as ignorant as the baby in the womb of the mother. The mother gives unconditional love and care to the child without any return.

    الرَّحْمَـٰنِ 
    1. مبالغه Extreme,beyond expectations, intense, incredible (Intense love)
    2. حدث Something happening immediately (at the moment) i.e. Allah is extremely loving and caring right now
    3. It is temporary and can be taken away e.g. عطشان atshaan means extremely thirsty, جوعان Jo'aan means extremely hungry, غضبان Ghazbaan means extremely angry
    So, it means we may possibly be disqualified from it because of our actions in this world.

    الرَّحِيمِ
    1. Permanent and constant
    2. It is not necessarily happening right now

    Both combined together complete the meaning of rahmah. Al Rahman is intense like the strong tides and waves of the ocean, and Al Raheem is constant like the  ocean.

    Al Rahman is mentioned first and Al Raheem is mentioned later. Why? 

    Al Rahman means that Allah is completely taking care of our immediate needs. It is only when our immediate needs are satisfied, that we think of our future needs. It is only when our present needs are met, that we are able to think about our future. e.g. if we are really hungry and need food, we don't care if we will get food a week later. We are only concerned about our present. But, when our immediate hunger is satisfied, then our mind goes to tomorrow or the next week.

    Al Raheem means that Allah is constantly taking care of us and will continue to take care of us in our future, the way he took care of our immediate needs. 

    Ibn Abbas R.A. said: Al Rahman is for everyone in this world and Al Raheem is for the believers in akhirah.
    This world is temporary just like Al Rahman and the akhirah is permanent just like Al Raheem.

    Allah is our Master but He is not like any other Master. Allah is a unique Master because He is unimaginably loving and caring, and He takes care of all our immediate and future needs. Our Rabb-Abd relationship is that based on love. Everything Allah commands us to do is for our good and it benefits our own selves Apparently, our niyyah is to please Allah but we don't realise that it brings chair to our own selves. Allah merely wants to lighten our burdens and show us the way.

    3. مَالِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّينِ

    After mentioning His mercy, Allah immediately reminds us that He is the Master of the Day of judgement. If we identified Allah only as Rahman Raheem, we would take advantage of it and think that we can get away with everything e.g. Imagine there is master and a slave. The master tells the slave that he can enjoy as much as he wants within a huge designated area, but he shouldn't go beyond the fence. The slave crosses the fence once by mistake and falls to the other side. He comes back and apologises to the master and the master does not punish him. He does it a few times repeatedly but the master doesn't rebuke him. He thinks the master is too lenient and will not hold him accountable for anything. He continues to cross the fence and eventually begins to stay on the other side of the fence. The master just observes him quietly and doesn't say anything so he assumes he has gotten away with it. Then one day the master calls him to account and tells him he was keeping a record of everything, and now he will be punished for his violations.

    This example is about our Rabb Abd relationship. If we think Allah is full of rahmah, we can take advantage of it and cross the line, so Allah immediately balances the equation by reminding us of the Day of Judgement. 

    مالك vs ملك

    Malik has two pronunciations in Surah Fatihah:
    MAALIK مالك = owner 
    MALIKملك = king

    They have different meanings e.g. we say: I own a pen/house, but we don't say we are the king of the pen. 
    King is usually used only for ownership of a huge thing e.g. King of a country, a nation. The KING usually only controls the Macro things, but not the Micro, and the OWNER usually takes care of Micro things, but not Macro things. The king doesn't take care of the minor details, but he only takes care of the big things. Allah is the MAALIK and MALIK on the Day of Judgement, so He will be in control of everything on that day, be it little or big. 

    Moreover, Allah says Allah is the Owner of the يوم. YAUM refers to day. Human beings do not have the ability to own time. We can own things, but we can never own or control time. Allah is the owner of time, and He can expand and contract it as he wishes. The Day of Judgement will be equal to 50000 years, and it is possible for Allah because Allah OWNS time. So, Allah will own everything on that day, including time.

    Why does Allah use دين, instead of Qiyamah?
    It comes from دان يدين. It means: to deal with. Allah is the owner of the day of Judgement, on which everything will be dealt with. All records will be set straight. This world is imperfect and unjust. Sometimes, good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. It is not possible to have absolute justice in this world. Allah tells us that everything will be accounted for on that day, and nobody will escape the justice of Allah.

    Justice vs. Punishment

    Rahmah is positive, punishment is negative. Judgement is in the middle and is entirely neutral. The natural expectation was that Allah would balance His Rahmah with His Punishment. But, Allah chose to mention His justice instead. Allah's punishment is never negative, unfair or based on emotions. Rather, Allah's justice is absolutely fair. We beg Allah for His mercy on Judgement Day and not His justice, because if we get questioned on Judgement day, we will not stand a chance. Nobody will be able to enter Jannah based on his Amal alone, we need Allah's rahmah to qualify for Jannah. 

    Some people get their book of deeds in their right hand. Some people will get their book of deeds in their left hand. Even if we have our book in our right hand, we would be extremely nervous on that day, but Allah will make our حساب easy for us and overlook out shortcomings. Allah will give us حسابا يسيرا. The ones who are given their book in their left hands will be hiding their books, and if Allah opens their books, they will be exposed and punished. 

    4.  إِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ


    After Allah has introduced Himself through the first 3 ayaat, it is our turn to speak to Allah directly, without any barriers. 

    The arrangement of this sentence is flipped so this adds emphasis to it. It means: it is only to you that we willingly give ourselves in slavery and worship.
    Some decisions are based on our heart and some decisions are based on intellect. Alhamdulillah is both emotional and intellectual (Inshaiya and Khabriya). While reading the first three ayaat of Surah Fatihah, we are so emotionally shaken and intellectually convinced that we give ourselves to Allah in aboodiyah. Surah Fatihah reinforces our faith over and over again and reminds us of why we came to Allah to begin with. If we forget the message of the Fatiha, our religion will be reduced to rites and rituals, and it will become an empty shell.

    وَإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِينُ
    After committing to be His Abd, we realise that we are unable to fulfil this task on our own. This realisation makes us turn to Allah for help, Allah will be sufficient as a helper. نستعين comes from استعانة and it means to seek help when you've already exerted yourself in mujahida. It means that we are making our own effort but we are seeking additional help to fulfil our task e.g. if you have a flat tyre and you are trying to fix it, but you need some additional help, that is istaana. If you're just sitting in the car doing nothing and waiting for help, then that is not istana. 

    Some people blame Allah for everything and wait for Allah's help without making any personal effort. They think Allah will solve everything for them without moving a muscle. The opposite extreme is of those people who think they can do everything on their own and they do not need Allah's help at all. We need to remember that actions depend on us and outcome/results depend on Allah. Allah only gives the outcome to those who make effort. Allah only helps those who help themselves. e.g. Ibrahim AS was also thrown in the fire and THEN the fire cooled.

    Moreover, we only ask for Allah's help after committing to our responsibilities of being an Abd. Once we make that commitment, only then are we in a position to ask for help. Another way to look at it is that iyyaka nabudu is FOR Allah while iyyaka Nastaeen is FOR us, so it is proper Adab that we do something for Allah first, before asking something for ourselves. 

    We don't specify what kind of help we need. Why? We are dependent on Allah's help at every step of the way, and we need Allah's help in so many ways that it is not possible to specify everything. Imagine that you are hanging off a cliff and about to fall. You will not specify in detail the kind of help you need at that point but you will just call out for "HELP!!!!" in desperation. When we are exasperated, we cannot even properly express ourselves. Surah Fatiha reflects our desperate need for Allah's help.

    5. اهْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ الْمُسْتَقِيمَ 

    After asking Allah for help, the only help we specify is: Guide us to Siraat ul Mustaqeem. This is the most desperate need we have, out of all our needs. Hidaya is something we need at every step of our lives. It is very precious and can be taken from us at any time, so we need to repeatedly ask Allah for it daily in our five salah. We can never claim that once we have been guided, we don't need any more of it OR we will remain on that guidance for life. 

    Imagine you need a glass of water while you're dying of thirst, how will you ask for help in that state? Will it be different for asking for water generally? Definitely. We need to have the right attitude while asking Allah for hidaya. This prayer needs to come from our heart. There should be a thirst for guidance like there is a thirst for water. It is needed over and over again. Guidance is the one thing that we need to beg from Allah, as it is not gifted without asking. 

    Huda comes from hadiya and it means gift. When Arabs got lost in the desert and found guidance(someone to show them the way), it was a gift for them. We ask Allah for the greatest of all gifts because we are lost without His guidance.


    Why do we ask Allah specifically for guidance? 

    Our relationship with Allah was Rabb-Abd relationship. One of the most important consequences of this relationship is that the slave needs a set of instructions to follow. It is not possible to be an abd if we don't know what our Master requires of us. We need instructions to be able to follow our Master as this relationship is defined by our Master. 

    Guidance vs. Knowledge

    Guidance is not the same as information/knowledge. We may have a lot of knowledge of the Qur'an but lack guidance. Shahadah was our first step towards guidance. In every moment of our lives, we face choices and we ask Allah to guide us in all those choices. We may be muslims and may have knowledge but we may not be on guidance. Guidance includes the strength to make the right decisions based on our knowledge. Seek knowledge, but never forget why you're seeking knowledge. Knowledge is not the goal. Guidance is the ultimate goal. If we don't have the right intentions, our knowledge misguides us and leads to arrogance. When we develop arrogance, we've lost slavery.

    We say اهدنا, plural, which means we need the company of other people on this path towards Hidaya. We need collective guidance and suhbah to stay firm on this path. We also  wish guidance for others.

     الصِّرَاطَ الْمُسْتَقِيمَ


    صراط is a specific kind of path. It has the following features:
    1. Wide path
    2. Straight path
    3. Long path

    When we ask someone for directions, we usually ask for directions to a specific destination. In Surah Fatihah, we don't ask for directions/guidance to our ultimate destination but we ask Allah for guidance to remain on the path.  Our life as Muslims is not about attaining a level of perfection, but it is about continual progress. This is a gift from Allah, because if Allah had specified a certain finishing line, some people would be able to reach it and some would be left behind. Allah values us, so long as we are on the path, even though we may be behind others. Allah did not create everybody the same way, but we are all unique and have our individual journeys to Allah.


    Mustaqeem means straight up and it comes from استقامة which means: to stand straight. So whoever travels upon this straight path, rises towards Allah and leaves the love of this world behind. The higher up we go, the greater danger there is of falling. Gravity will always be trying to pull us back to towards the Earth, so we continuously need to resist it to follow Siraat ul Mustaqeem. Also, when we go up on this path, our vision broadens and we get a better view of the reality of this world. 

    We ask Allah for Guidance TO and THROUGH and ALL the way to the Sirat ul mustaqeem. e.g. If we have to go to a destination, we first ask someone for directions, then preferably we ask someone to stay with us during the journey so we don't have to travel alone. We ask our guide to remain with us till the end so that we don't get lost. This is the ultimate hidaya we ask for, after which there is no misguidance.

     6. صِرَاطَ الَّذِينَ أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيْهِمْ

    We need a role model who has already been on this path, so that he can guide us through this path. We take advice from graduates of the past, not from freshmen. We ask Allah for the path of those Allah has done انعام upon. In'am refers to making things smooth, easy and luxurious. This word is also used for cattle. How can a path that requires us to go upwards against gravity be easy? These people made effort, and Allah made this path easy like an elevator/escalator for them. We ask Allah to introduce us to those people whom this path was made easy for. Allah introduces them in the Qur'an through stories, so we can learn from their companionship.

    الْمَغْضُوبِ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا الضَّالِّينَ

    غير (change). We want to be on the path of those people whom you favoured and not those who were the recipients of rage or those who were lost.

    The people whom Allah favoured, we only look for them in the past, but the people who are lost or recipients of rage, we look for them in the past, present and future. Allah has used nouns مغضوب and ضالّين. Nouns are timeless and permanent. 

    When someone does something wrong, while knowing that the act was wrong, we feel very angry towards them. This refers to the Jews. Jews were the recipients of Allah's anger because they were very knowledgable in religion but they still kept making the wrong decisions. They had knowledge without actions. This refers to us because we also know things are wrong and do them anyway. 
    Allah is so angry with them that Allah does not even want to associate Himself with them, so Allah doesn't even say that they will face HIS rage. Moreover, they will also be the recipient of anger from those people who became lost because of their misguidance.

    When someone does something wrong because they didn't know any better, we do not hold them responsible to that extent. They are considered "lost". This refers to the Christians. They had action without knowledge. Some people don't want to be of those who earn Allah's rage so they prefer being ضالّين. They avoid acquiring knowledge and prefer to remain ignorant, so that they will not be held accountable for the knowledge they didn't act upon. Allah mentions both to complete the equation, so that we learn knowledge and act upon it.

    This does not mean that all the Jews and Christians in the world are under Allah's wrath. It just means that Allah has mentioned their case studies in the Qur'an so that we can learn from their mistakes, and not repeat their behaviour.

    What makes Surah Fatiha miraculous linguistically?

    1.
    Surah fatiha has 3 parts.
    The first 3 ayahs(including Bismillah) are about Allah
    The 4th ayah is divided between us and Allah
    The last 3 Ayahs are about us.

    2.
    Part one(first three ayahs) were about Allah so it consists of noun sentences. Noun sentences are permanent and timeless, just like Allah.
    Part three(last three ayahs) is about us so these are verb based sentences. Verb based sentences are temporary, just like humans.
    Part two(4th ayah) is amazing because it is a verb based sentence which begins with a noun(Iyyaka= مفعول به مقدم). It is a mixture of noun and verb based sentence. This verse is between us and Allah so it is combination of both. 

    3. 
    The conclusion of the first 3 Ayaat is iyyaka na'budu
    The introduction of the last 3 Ayaat is iyyaka nastaeen

    4.
    Balance in Surah Fatiha:
    The first 3 ayaat are about knowledge of Allah
    In the 4th ayah, we are ready to take action.
    In the last 3 ayaat, we ask to be of those who had knowledge and action. We ask Allah to keep us away from those people who had knowledge but no action, and those who had action without knowledge. Knowledge and action are balanced in the last ayah.

    We say Rabbul Aalimeen, and Allah mentions the worlds of people in the last ayaat: those he favoured, those who earned rage, and those were lost.

    Allah balanced hope and responsibility through Al Rahman al Raheem and Maaliki youmiddin

    Hamd is felt in the heart and Allah will test us individually on the day of judgement. So, it is about individual actions while iyyaka nabudu wa iyyaka nastaeen is about collective actions.

    5.
    There are 4 kinds of conflicts in the world:
    1. Internal conflict: Body vs. Soul
    (Spiritual needs/conscience vs. Physical needs/temptations)

    2. Social conflict: Men vs. Women
    Our world has always debated about the rights of men and women. If in the divorce court, the judge is a man he would favour the man, and vice versa.

    3. Economic conflict: Boss(Capital) vs. Employee(Labour)
    Work more/pay less/less vacation vs. Work less/pay more/More vacation 

    4. Political conflict: Government vs. people
    More taxes/ Less freedom vs. Less taxes/more freedom

    These 4 conflicts have always existed. How can we decide between this conflicts without any bias?Who can find balance and determine the rights of everyone fairly?

    We ask Allah to show us the middle path so that we can have a just and unbiased approach towards all of these conflicts. Allah is unbiased towards all parties and He can give the true balance that humanity is looking for.





    Friday, June 17, 2016

    Spiritual retreat (Ramadan 2016) - Shaykh Kamaluddin Ahmed

    Recommended books:
    ZUBTADUL FIQH - HAZRAT ZAWAR SHAH (KITAB UL IMAAN)
    KITAB UL IMAAN - MAULANA IDREES KANDHALWI
    UMDATUL FIQH
    IKHTALAF E UMMAT AND SIRAAT UL MUSTAQEEM- MAULANA LUDHIANWI

    QASD US SABEEL 

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    Sabīl is another word for path; this path of sulūk and tassawuf. Allāh swt says in Qur’ān, ‘wattabi’ sabīla man anāba ilayya...’ which means follow the way of those who turn to Me (in love). Mawlāna Ashraf rahimahullāh uses the word ‘sabīl’ since Allāh swt has also used this word. Qasd means intention; it means the intention to firmly walk on this path of tassawuf and tazkiyah. It means to desire the pleasure and qurb of your Rabb via the teachings of tassawuf and tazkiyah. For the real sālik, understand that this is a manual. Hadrat Thānwi has written a manual for the one who has a serious intent and a firm resolve, not for the one who randomly gave bay’ah, or gave bay’ah for barakah, or due to group dynamics. Maybe that was the initial intention, but now they have qasd; they have a deep and strong intention to want to travel and traverse this path to really become sālih and muttaqī once and for all. That is the purpose of this book



    INTRODUCTION: The reality of tarīqat and tassawuf is to act according to sharī’ah. There is one thing called ‘ilm of sharī’ah (i.e. studying sharī’ah through fiqh, hadīth, tafsīr, kalām, ilm ul-aqā’id, usūl etc), but having knowledge of it is one thing, and then acting according to it is another. There may be people who lack the knowledge, but they have a lot of ‘amal, and there may be people who have a lot of knowledge, but lack the ‘amal. The whole purpose of tassawuf and tarīqat is to do ‘amal on sharī’ah; to practise the sharī’ah completely. There is no other objective, no other higher understanding. There is no other goal, no other ‘ilm besides that of sharī’ah. The tips, techniques and methodologies of training (asbāk, awrād, dhikr, wazā’if etc) are there to help us do ‘amal on sharī’ah. From this we realise that there is a gap between ‘ilm and ‘amal. The whole purpose of tassawuf and tarīqat is to bridge the gap between ‘ilm and ‘amal


    To be a mujaddid, you must understand the society - you need to have an understanding of the ummah. Hadrat Thānwī rahimahullāh knew where the ummah was going, especially in their understanding of tassawuf - so he mentions that for a long time, there have been some misunderstandings and confusions that presented themselves regarding tassawuf. There were a lot of people who didn’t have the true understanding of tarīqat and tassawuf, so they took some customs and practices of certain saintly people; so what they did was rather than focus on how to follow sharī’ah, they just looked at the random things the Shaykh did. They took the habits, peculiarities and particularities of the Shaykh to be tassawuf. This mean they end up on some type of personality-worship type of tassawuf. So these were some things that needed to be changed. It is not enough to just dress the same as the Shaykh, or to wear the same style turban as the Shaykh – if that is all your tassawuf, it is not going to bring you on ‘amal of sharī’ah. There is no wardrobe that can bring you on the ‘amal of sharī’ah. If there was, it would become the super- hero uniform cape, that you just wear the cape, and you get some super powers – it doesn’t work like that. If you reduce tassawuf solely to some customs and practices, you won’t get the goal. Yes, no doubt, if it is sunnah, it will help us towards our goal and aim



    He also says there were certain states and conditions which people thought to be tassawuf. So they thought tassawuf was about certain involuntary spiritual states and conditions. What is meant here is that it wasn’t because of their adoption of taqwā or sunnah that led to these states, but it was involuntary. So, sometimes it happens to people – you will find people in certain spiritual states of ecstasy, and they will also tell you it happened all of a sudden. These random arbitrary occurrences are experienced by some people – and yes, they aren’t lying about it, but that is also not the goal or objective of tassawuf. The aim of tassawuf was to become a person of sharī’ah, sunnah and taqwā. The problem was when a person experiences these certain spiritual ecstasies and states, they enjoy it. There is a great deception in these states. For e.g. in our Naqshbandī Silsilā, if a person experiences these states, then Imām Rabbānī rahimahullāh made it clear that are you going to be ‘Abd ul-Lutf or ‘Abd ul- Latīf? Are you going to do dhikr for the sublime pleasure of it, or for Allāh swt? Imām Rabbānī rahimahullāh also explained that these involuntary spiritual states are incidental for e.g. when you have certain medicines, it has the intended effect and also some side effects – the side effects are irrelevant. Those people who take medicine for the side effects, they’ll become addicted to the medicine like there are people who take opioids (which are to be taken for pain), but they also experience some sort of pleasure and sense of well being as these drugs affect the brain. So they become addicted to this side effect.


    Many people start doing things contrary to sharī’ah just to experience these spiritual highs for e.g. they might take some intoxicants, or smoke something just to get these highs. So because they can’t get the spiritual high due to taqwā, sunnah and sharī’ah, they found another way to get it. Some people were doing things against the sharī’ah, they were breaking laws of sharī’ah, and despite this, they still got some feelings. For e.g. they may say I was twirling and dancing and I felt the love of Rasūlullāh ﷺ , or I went to Madīnah Munawwarah and I smoked hash and I felt a lot of love for Rasūlullāh ﷺ . It wasn’t wrong; they may have felt the love this way. But this deluded them to think these ghayr-shar’ī things are okay. The end doesn’t suffice the means. They used the attainment of the end to justify their means



    Dreams are the one thing that will never enter your book of deeds. No matter how good a dream you see, you will not even get one good deed for it. You can see a dream that you are on Hajj with Sayyidinā Rasūlullāh ﷺ ., and after doing Hajj, you go to Multazim with him – but this dream will not even give you one good deed in your Book of Deeds. And you might see the most sinful dream (may Allāh swt protect us from nightmares), or you might see yourself doing the most sinful act in your dream, but you won’t even get one bad deed written in your Book of Deeds. This is again a delusion, and because of these delusions, people stopped doing good a’māl. So you have to check – is the person so into dreams and spiritual highs that they don’t read Qur’ān, or make istighfār, or send salawāt to Sayyidinā Rasūlullāh ﷺ . If a person consciously deliberately goes for the absence of a’māl in order to get the presence of ahwāl, then this is a big deception. We have to watch ourselves that we don’t fall into this deception. We must strive for istiqāmah in our a’māl, no matter what ahwāl we are in. There is no hāl that a person can get which makes them an exception to live a life according to sharī’ah



    GUIDELINE ONE: SHARI’ĀH AND TARĪQAT 


     The definition of sulūk and tarīqat (more commonly known as tasawwuf), is that a Muslim should adorn his external and internal self with good deeds and abstain from all sins. The main objective is to please Allah subhānahu wata’ālā, and the way to go about doing this is to practice upon all the commands of sharī’ah. Some of these commands are directed at the external self such as salāh, fasting, hajj, zakāt, marriage, divorce, for the spouses to fulfil each other’s rights, taking oaths, paying the penalty for breaking an oath, business, law suits, testimony in court, bequests, dividing inheritance, greeting with salām, speech, eating, sleeping, sitting, standing, being a guest, hosting guests etc. All these laws and masā’il are referred to as Fiqh (Jurisprudence).


    Other commands are directed at the internal self such as loving Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā, fearing Him, remembering Him, decreasing one’s love for the world, being pleased with the decree of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā, not being greedy, concentrating in acts of worship, fulfilling the commands of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā sincerely to please Him only, not looking down on others, not being proud or conceited, controlling one’s anger. This good character (akhlāq) is referred to as Sulūk, Tarīqat and Tasawwuf. The ‘ilm of tasawwuf and tarīqat is also part of tasawwuf, but the goal oftTasawwuf is to according to the ‘ilm. We can learn about the best ways of doing things, but are we acting according to that? Making a person do ‘amal is part of tasawwuf and tarīqat. Hadrat Thānwī rahimahullāh talks about both zāhir and bātin knowledge. ‘Ilm uz-zāhir is known as fiqh, and ‘ilm ul-bātin is known as tasawwuf.


    Moreover, showing great importance to purifying the self of spiritual maladies and bad akhlāq is even more necessary due to the fact that these spiritual maladies affect the external actions. For example, if one does not have true love for Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā, it will lead to laziness with regards to salāh or he will perform rukū’ (bowing) and sujūd (prostrating) quickly, without giving it its due right, or he will become stingy due to which he will not discharge his zakāt, or he will not have the courage to perform hajj, or he will oppress others due to pride or the inability to control his anger. In short, sharī’ah and tarīqat are not two separate things. Rather, practicing upon all the external and internal commands of sharī’ah properly and completely is called tarīqat. Imām Abū Hanīfah rahimahullāh has defined Fiqh in such a way that both the external commands as well as the internal commands of sharī’ah are included in the definition



    We can also understand these definitions to be different from one another, yet intertwined and inter-reliant, by means of the following example; Salāh is a separate form of worship and fasting is a separate form of worship. A man’s hand is a limb separate from his foot. The eye is one thing and the ear is another and, likewise, the heart and liver are two distinctly different and separate organs. However, in order to form a complete human being, all the limbs and body parts are needed. None of them can be isolated as important to the exclusion of the rest. The latter ‘ulamā, for pedagogical, methodological and educational purposes, they separated these two components simply to make it easy for people to get both. The human being is the summation of all the separate limbs, and similarly sharī’ah is a combination of both fiqh and tasawwuf



    There are people like this who claim they no longer need to pray or fast because they’ve reached a certain rank and feel they are spiritually accomplished. They claim their bātin is pure, but their zāhir wasn’t since they are leaving compulsory acts, hence accumulating great sin. If someone’s sharī’ah is not pure, then it’s not possible for the bātin to be pure. An absence of even one sunnah is a weakness in the bātin. Every single state that the Qur’ān and Sunnah does not talk about is false. The Qur’ān and Sunnah talk about love for Allāh swt, tawakkul, tafwīd etc., but if there is some condition a person claims they are in and it isn’t mention anywhere in Qur’ān and Sunnah, then that state and ecstasy is false.

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    It means there is no spirituality beyond the spirituality of Sayyidinā Rasūlullāh ﷺ - anything beyond the sunnah is false. There were many conditions and spiritual states mentioned about Nabī ﷺ – Hadrat ‘Ā’isha radiyaAllāhu ‘anhā mentions his heart was always in the state of dhikr; he was remembering Allāh swt all the time. What does this mean? It means since we are his ummah, and in the Qur’an, is mentioned;
    Laqad kāna lakum fī rasūlillāhi uswatun hasanah liman kāna yarjullāha wal-yawma al-ākhirawa dhakara Allāha kathīra You have indeed in the Messenger of Allāh swt a good example to follow for anyone whose hope is in Allāh & the final Day, and who engages much in the remembrance of Allāh subhānahu wat’ālā [33:21]So what we learn is sharī’ah = tarīqat, and tarīqat is subsumed under sharī’ah. 
    There is no way something could be harām in sharī’ah, and at the same time, it is halāl in tarīqat. Everything must be compliant to the sharī’ah


    GUIDELINE TWO: TAWBAH 

     So before one moves forwards, one has to get rid of all the baggage that is holding them down from their past. Why is tawbah the first step? Because the purpose of this path is to act according to sharī’ah, then a person should seek repentance for all the times they violated sharī’ah

    The first step is to fulfil any outstanding rights. They should particularly and especially take care of the rights they owed to other fellow slaves of Allāh swt. So you should either fulfil the rights you owe others, or if this isn’t possible, then you need to seek their forgiveness and ask them to waive the rights you owe them. Until and unless a person does this, even if they spend their whole life in worship and spiritual struggles, they will never be able to get the qurb of Allāh swt. The reason huqūq ul-‘ibād is stressed is because repenting to Allāh swt is relatively easy; it can even be instant, but if a person has a lot of problems, or outstanding issues, or sinful relations or sinful oppression, or sinful obstruction, or sinful usurping of the someone’s wealth, then it isn’t that easy to make up; it isn’t instant. Hadrat Thānwi rahimahullāh has another great book called ādāb ul-muāsharat (Etiquettes of Social Life), in which he actually specifically mentioned the etiquette of how to interact with people in every aspect of interpersonal dealings, so that you are safeguarded from ending up in this mess and doing those sins in the first place. Preventive measure is much better than trying to cure yourself once you fall into it.

     Book link to ādāb ul-muāsharat: [English] (http://ia800307.us.archive.org/16/items/EtiquettesOfSocialLifeByShaykhAshrafAliThanvir.a/EtiquettesOfSocialLifeB yShaykhAshrafAliThanvir.a.pdf) 

     The meaning and method of tawbah: 

    Tawbah is not done by just saying “Tawbah, tawbah!” or “Astagfirullāh!” Rather, there are three essential elements of tawbah. The first is that one should feel remorse, regret and there should be a feeling of restlessness, sadness and grief in the heart regarding all the sins one has committed in the past. Secondly, one should actually abandon those sins immediately. Thirdly, one should have a firm resolution never to return to any of those sins again.


    Sometimes, it does happen that a person returns to that sin even if they had these three things. They may have truly felt sad and regret, they immediately stopped and they had an intention never to return to this sin again, but at some point in the future, they slipped and they returned back into that sin. So what does it mean? It doesn’t mean the first tawbah was wrong; it doesn’t mean they were untrue – but it means they were weak. They weren’t strong enough yet in dīn to pull themselves out of it – so they have to make tawbah again, and they have to do more tazkiyah. They have to realise that my nafs is still stronger than me; I want out, but I cannot get out. It is just like an exam – you don’t want to fail, but if you do, you have to take it again. You can’t take it again just like that, but you have to change something about yourself. It’s called studying – you have to study more, you have to study better. Now, if someone studies more and better, and they still fail, then they could give it up, or they again could change something about themselves. They have to work even more on themselves; they have to work even harder on themselves. It is the same thing with the battle of the nafs. The failure of tawbah can sometimes be a weakness in any of the three things, or you may even have true sincerity in all three, but you may just be too weak to stay away from the sin. So, you have to make yourself stronger (this will come later in the text). There are ‘ibādāt, adhkār, extra nafl salāhs, extra fasts – there are things in the dīn to make a person stronger like for e.g. when Nabī ﷺ told the young men to fast if they cannot get married, as it will help suppress their desires.


    The first essential element – feeling regret, remorse and sadness in the heart regarding all past sins – cannot be achieved without knowledge. One first needs to know which deeds are considered to be major sins and which are minor sins. He also needs to know what the repercussions of these sins are, both in this world and the hereafter. The aforementioned points can also be read in this humble servant’s book “Gunāh e be-lazzat” (Pleasureless Sins) as well as books written by other senior scholars such as “Baheshti Zewar”, “Jazā’ul-A’māl”, “Ta’līm ud-Dīn”, “Hayāt ul-Muslimīn”, “Tablīgh-e-Dīn”.

     The second essential element is the immediate abandonment of all sins. This cannot be done without courage and courage cannot be developed without spending time in the company of pious, righteous people, reading and listening to their biographies and the difficulties they went through (while treading the path of tasawwuf).

    Another important thing here is that it also gives us a niyyah (an intention) for suhbah (being in good company). The intention isn’t just barakah or qurb, it isn’t just muhabbah or mahbūbiyyah. The niyyah is this – I sit by the fire, not because I want to be loved by the fire, or I want to be beloved to the fire, not because I love the fire, not just for the sake of being near to the fire, I have one reason to sit by the fire and that is that I need the heat and the warmth of the fire. If you go with the intention, you will get more. You will get more of the heat when you sit more by the heat, but if you sit out of habit, or show, or for identity, or for love and endearment, then you will get less of the heat.


    Wa tawāsaw bil-haqqi wa tawāsaw bis-sabr ... and join together in the mutual teaching of truth and join together in the mutual teaching of patience' 

    So you’re supposed to help one another. Sometimes by outwardly helping, you secretly get inspired. Sometimes it might happen that you realise that you have a friend who you saw on campus lowering his gaze, and he doesn’t even know that you saw him, but you silently happen to pass by and because of him, you got himmah. You got encouragement, you got motivation, and you got inspiration. You feel more shame – if he can do it, why can’t I do it?

    The third essential element is to have a firm intention never to return to any of these sins again. This is within the control of each person. He can do this all the time, but courage is the key to every action. In this regard too, he will have to make an unwavering resolution that he will fulfil the commands of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā and Rasūlullāh ﷺ . Regardless of how much difficulty he has to put himself through, no matter how much harm will come to his life or wealth, no matter how much he will lose out in this world, and no matter how many people badmouth and chide him, he must promise himself that he will bear it all, but he will not stop obeying Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā and Rasūlullāh ﷺ . wata’ālā. Unless one makes an absolute and complete intention and resolve, they won’t succeed.

    So what is our problem? We say we don’t want to do this sin again, but at the same time, we don’t want to lose out on ‘this’, we don’t want to lose out on ‘that’ – we try to think of some way of holding onto the benefits we were getting via those sins at the same time as leaving the sin. You have to be willing to take a hit; you have to be willing to take a fall; you have to be willing to lose the benefit; you have to be willing to lose from people; you have to be willing to go through that process; you should be willing to do whatever it takes - no matter what - to not go back to that sin.


    This is a mark of the tālib sādiq (a true seeker) that they truly sincerely have this desire for Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā, that ‘O’ Allāh, I want You and I could leave everything for You; I want to be Your slave – I am willing to sacrifice anything, endure any embarrassment, tolerate any trouble just to be Yours. I have gone against You for too long, and now I am willing to do anything just to be Yours.’ You have to make this intention again and again.

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    FULFILLING THE RIGHTS DUE TO OTHERS 

    If you study the books mentioned above, you will learn that some sins only entail breaking the rights of Allah subhānahu wata’ālā and no human being is harmed by these sins at all. Others are such that our fellow man is harmed by our wrong doings.

    The first type is called “huqūq-ullāh” (the rights of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā) and the second type is called “huqūq ul-‘ibād” (the rights of our fellow man). Huqūq-ullāh are further divided into those right, which one needs to repay (make qadhā of) such as salāh, or someone hasn’t paid his zakāt in the past and will have to calculate the outstanding amount and repay it now, or Hajj became compulsory upon someone but he still hasn’t gone, so he will have to go as soon as possible, or someone took an oath and broke it, but hasn’t paid the penalty (kaffārah) yet, so he will have to fulfil the applicable penalty.

    The second type of huqūq-ullāh are such that there is no stipulated penalty in the sharī’ah, for example telling lies, breaking the commands of sharī’ah by fulfilling one’s illicit desires etc. The only way to make up for these sins is to keep on crying to Allah subhānahu wata’ālā sincerely and seeking forgiveness.It is compulsory to repay or pay the stipulated penalty for all those sins which fall into the first category of huqūq-ullāh for which there is a fixed penalty or which have to be repaid. In other words, one has to ponder deeply and make a note of all the salāh, which one has missed throughout his life and all the fasts that were not kept and then they have to be performed. If one has missed a large amount of salāh, he should start performing the missed salāh daily as he gets time and courage, and keep on doing so every day until it is complete.

    Similarly, if one has not discharged zakāt for a number of years, he should estimate how much zakāt he has withheld and immediately start paying it back bit by bit.Likewise, if one did not pay sadaqat ul-fitr or do qurbānī, even though it was compulsory for him to do so, he will have to give the sadaqat ul-fitr as well as the equivalent value of the qurbānī, which he owes in charity as soon as possible. Similarly, if he broke an oath, he will have to fulfil the stipulated penalty and if he intentionally broke a compulsory fast, he will have to repeat the broken fast together with stipulated penalty for breaking it.



    Similarly, one needs to pay back whichever other huqūq-ullāh have to be repaid and one has to pay the penalty for whichever of these rights have a stipulated penalty. As long as one has not repaid all these rights, merely making verbal tawbah will never suffice. All this being mentioned isn’t just for our knowledge – the point is we have to do these things as part of our tawbah. The true seeker will sit down and figure all these things out, and will start making up for all of this, one step at a time. One should also make du’ā to Allāh subhānu wata’ālā for those sins that cannot be made up and say, yā Allāh, if there was a stipulated penalty or qadhā for these sins (for e.g. lustful glances, sins related to the nafs), I would pay it, but since there isn’t, please forgive me. Maybe the kaffārah for it is that the eyes with which you glanced at someone with lust, with them very same eyes, you shed tears for Allāh’s sake, you pray Qur’ān, you look at the a’bah etc


    Huqūq ul-‘ibād 

    The second type of rights are those of one’s fellow man – huqūq ul-‘ibād. This type is also divided into two categories. The first is financial rights. For example, if one borrowed money from someone and hasn’t repaid him yet or one signed a contract which had a financial implication and has yet to pay it, or one has stolen money from someone else or taken a bribe from him or any other financial right for that matter, he should draw up a list of all these outstanding debts and repay them. If one can’t pay them all immediately, he should start paying them off in manageable amounts. If the debtors are still alive and one has their contact details, it is easy to repay their rights. However, if they have passed away, one should look for their heirs and hand the money over to them. However, if one still can’t find them or their heirs despite trying one’s best, the amount owed to them should be given in charity on their behalf.


    If you applied for financial aid at a university and you lied, and you deliberately did not disclose all your parents assets truly, since there was no way they would have given you that financial aid, then you violated the rights of that institution. That is how much a tawbah a person should want to make – it depends how far you want to go. If somebody wasn’t eligible for zakāt, and they tried to list themselves as if they were of a lower income bracket to get some concession from zakat, then that is also a problem. If somebody lied in some way to get a scholarship, and it was an absolute clear outright lie that if the scholarship committee knew, they would have never given you that scholarship, then that is also a problem. I don’t know how far to take it – it depends how far tawbah you want to make. If a person lied in their résumé and CV to get a job based on falsely presented credentials, then one can question that salary. If a person worked in a bank, then one can question that salary.


    The second category of huqūq ul-‘ibād is physical rights. For example, if one has harmed anyone verbally or physically without a reason which sharī’ah has deemed valid like swearing at someone, backbiting someone etc. it is necessary to go and ask him or her for forgiveness. If one has hit or kicked someone else, he should be prepared for that person to take revenge by telling him that he has the option of either retaliating or forgiving him.

    One easy way to get these type of huqūq ul-‘ibād forgiven is that you forgive others. The more you forgive others, the easier it is for others to forgive you. If you go round trying to get others to forgive you, but you yourself have grudges in your heart, then it will be difficulty. You will find someone who may not forgive you. Our dīn teaches us the sunnah of Nabī ﷺ, ‘wal-‘āfīna ‘an in-nās – and pardon all men...’

    We should forgive others – we should even forgive people even without them asking. That is what dīn teaches. That is why Nabī ﷺ told Hadrat Anas radiyAllāhu ‘anhu to take out any bad feeling for anybody that you may have morning and evening. You should make intention at least once every night before sleeping that yā Allāh, I forgive all the huqūq ul-‘ibād that anybody may have over me. Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā will make it easy for you to get forgiven by others, but you have to find them. When you find them, you don’t have to necessarily tell them what exactly you did for e.g. that “I did your ghībah at this time and this time with these these words and these these sentences, and in such and such a tone – so you can do ghībah of me if you want.” No – it doesn’t work like that. You can just generally say that if you have any rights over me or if I have any rights over you, wouldn’t it be wonderful if we forgave each other. If they give a slight nod, you are definitely forgiven. If they say ‘whatever’, maybe even then you are forgiven. Anything other than a ‘no’ is a yes. That is one view. If they are silent, even then you are forgiven. However, a more harsh and strict view is that until they actually say something or indicate somehow that they have forgiven you, only then you are forgiven.


    Tawbah will not be complete until all the above-mentioned rights are paid back and settled in the explained manner. Furthermore, no matter how much effort one makes throughout his life in nafl, ibādat, dhikr, spiritual exercises etcetera, neither will it ever reach Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā, nor will he be treading the straight path until his tawbah is complete. In short, it is a precondition for the validity of one’s tawbah to either pay back all the huqūq-ullāh and huqūq ul-‘ibād he owes or have them waived and forgiven.

    He doesn’t mean it wont have any effect, but it wont be able to bring you all the way to the qurb (nearness) and radā (pleasure) of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā as these outstanding huqūq ul-‘ibād will remain an impediment and a hindrance. You’ll be stuck. You keep doing the nawāfil and dhikr – and one can hope that the increased nawāfil and dhikr will increase your himmah (strength and courage) to follow up and follow through on all these tawbahs. The increased dhikr and nawāfil may make us more beloved to Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā and He may inspire the hearts of others to forgive us – so there is a connection. But this itself on its own cannot be a form of taw bah.



    GUIDELINE THREE: SEEKING KNOWLEDGE OF DEEN

    Once one has, in accordance with guideline two, repented sincerely from all previous sins and made a firm resolution that he will adhere to the commands of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā and Rasūlullāh ﷺ , and that he will tolerate whatever difficulty, worldly loss or taunting comes his way, it is obvious that he will not be able to do all of this without acquiring the necessary knowledge of dīn. For this reason, it is crucial for him to seek as much basic knowledge of the laws of sharī’ah and masā’il as he would need in his daily life. This can either be done by reading books or by asking the ‘ulamā. For an easy read in the Urdu language, one can refer to the books of my Shaykh, Hadrat Hakīm ul-Ummah rahimahullāh , such as “Baheshti Zewar (Heavenly Ornaments)” and “Baheshti Gohar” (Heavenly Gems)” and study them bit by bit under the supervision of the ‘ulamā, or even study them by oneself. One may also read Hadrat’s treatises “Safāi-e-Mu’āmalāt (Dirt-free Dealings)”, “Ādāb ul-Mu’āsharat (Etiquettes of Social Life)” and the third chapter of “Miftāh ul-Jannah (The Key to Jannah)”, which contain more than enough information regarding our daily religious needs. 
    Book link to safāi-e-mu’āmalāt: [Urdu] http://pdf9.com/read-online-safai-muamlat-id-4825.html


     There are some basic laws you need to know based on whatever situation you are in. If you work for a company, you need to know the shar’ī masā’il on how to work in a company. If you are a husband, you need to know the shar’ī masā’il on how to be a husband. If you are a parent, you need to know the shar’ī masā’il on how to be a parent. Whatever situation you are in, you need to know what the masā’il e shar’ī regarding that situation. That is what it means by ‘according to your needs’

    Whilst learning, a person must always have a firm intention to implement and practise that which they learn. Why? There are two things that prevent people from making ‘amal even if they have ‘ilm and have made the intention of tawbah. These are the nafs (desires of the soul) and the second is when you are worried about what people will say. These are two big things. How does one get out of these two things? ‘Irādah. Ultimately, it will be about a person’s willpower, firmness, determination and resolve.

     After Ramadān, the fasting and tarāwīh will go away, so start doing those a’māl, which you can continue after Ramadān. It is the istiqāmah you have on the continuing a’māl that crush the nafs. The regular medicine crushes the cancer; the regular medicine in consistent doses crushes the illness; its those regular a’māl that will crush the nafs. This is why Rasūlullāh ﷺ has said, “The best actions are those which are consistent, even if they are small.” The most beloved actions to Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā are those that you do most regularly, even if they are a few. Sometimes, we make a huge schedule for ourselves, but we can’t sustain it. Start with a few things that you do most regularly and that will have a big impact on your nafs than doing large things less regularly. Few things that you do most regularly will have more effect on the nafs, and many things less regularly will have less effect on the naps.

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    GUIDELINE FOUR: THE NEED FOR A MURSHID AND HOW TO RECOGNISE A TRUE SHAYKH

    One generally needs a teacher from whom one can learn the external practices of Islām as well as the masā’il regarding them. It would not be correct to learn these things without a teacher. However, there is an even greater need for a teacher from whom one can learn the internal (spiritual) practices of Islam.


    For the outward ‘amal (sharī’ah), the masā’il are generally, by custom, learnt with a teacher. Without a teacher, it isn’t possible – that is because you may read something and not understand it. Even as something as basic as fiqh of tahārah and salāh, something as basic as zubdat ul-fiqh and behisiti zewar, you might misunderstand something, or you might try apply to it to a particular situation or circumstance, and you might not do this correctly. Anybody who has studied basic fiqh with a teacher will know it was much more beneficial with a teacher than going through it by yourself. For the a’māl e bātin (hayā, sabr, shukr etc), there are some states that are mandatory, and some that are actually prohibited or disliked. These are the things that are explained in tasawwuf and tarīqat. To learn these things, to acquire the knowledge of these things is, and to practise and implement it, one would need a teacher all the more. In the terminology of tasawwuf, such a teacher is known as shaykh, pīr or murshid. Shaykh and Murshid are Arabic terms, and pīr is a Persian term. Murshid comes rushd; it is an ism fā’il from the masdar ‘irshād’, which means someone who guides a person and helps a person. Guidance is Qur’ān and Sunnah. The map is the Qur’ān and Sunnah, and the shaykh is the one who helps us navigate that map, to guide us according to the map.


    d. As an example, lets take ‘hasad’ – you might not know now what it is, unless you are trained to know what it is. Second is to accept you have envy inside of you - you may not be able to acknowledge that. Many times, a letter would be written about some bātinī feeling, and the student wouldn’t be sure of what it means. Sometimes a shaykh would write back that you are just fine. Sometimes the student might write he is fine, and the shaykh may reply that you aren’t. Sometimes, a person presents himself or herself as ill, and the shaykh diagnoses them as ill. Sometimes, a person presents himself or herself as healthy, and the shaykh diagnoses them as ill. Sometimes, a person presents himself or herself as ill, and the shaykh diagnoses them as healthy. Self-diagnosis is difficult. Even if someobody may understand what hasad/envy is, and they also correctly and accurately diagnose themselves, still sometimes they need help and guidance on how to get rid of that envy. If not help/guidance, then they need a push. They need to be in a system that is moving them out away from the envy. Otherwise, a lot of us can co-exist with sin.

    This is the problem – the nafs is inside us, so it is easy to co-exist with sin. It has become increasingly easy over time to co-exist with sin – whether it’s the sin of envy, of lust, of greed etc. Any sin. It will co-exist with our spiritual self - with our salāh, our tilāwah, with our ‘ilm, with niqābs, with our turbans, with our sunnah – all of this can co-exist with sin. That means we are too acquainted and too comfortatble with sin. The sins are engrained in us; this means we need something external. We need some external motivation, external push, and an external force; otherwise if most of us are left to ourselves, we can sin alongside doing things in our dīn.



    It is not like they’ll be able to continue practicing dīn with istiqāmāh – they’ll have some type of loss. If they misdirect their gaze regularly, surely and maybe gradually, but inescapably, they will lose something in their dīn. They might start missing salāh with jamā’ah, or they might start snapping at people. Before, they may only have had the sin of lust, and now the sin of greed shows up, although normally, they may not have been a greedy person. By temperament, they weren’t greedy at all, but the problem is they didn’t get rid of the sin of lust. It is like cancer – the cancer will spread unless it is treated. If it is not treated, it will not be contained – so this is what happens. Even if a person has understanding and diagnosis, they still need help in curing themselves from that sin.


    The signs of a Shaykh-e-Kāmil 

    A Shaykh-e-Kāmil is one in whom the following qualities can be found:

    1. He has enough knowledge of dīn (as would allow him to fulfil his basic obligations). 

    He should know at least as much knowledge as is required. Strictly speaking, being an ‘ālim of dīn is not required to be a shaykh. Two famous examples from this silsilā would be Hadrat Thānwī’s own shaykh, Hadrat Hājī Imdādullāh Muhājir Makkī rahimahullāh, and also one of his foremost khulafā, Dr ‘Abd ul-Hay ‘Ārifī rahimahullāh. Neither of them was a formally trained and certified madrasah graduate type of scholar. However, they had an understanding of Qur’ān and Sunnah. They had an understanding of what was tazkiyah, what was tawbah; they had an understanding of what was dhikr and adhkār, hence that was sufficient for them to be able to help and guide people on the path of tazkiya.

    2. His aqīdah, actions and habits are all in conformity with the sharī’ah. 

    Hadrat Thānwī was writing at a time when the Deoband movement was being formed, so their principles and tenets of belief, their practise and habits, it must all be according to the sharī’ah.

    3. He is not greedy for the things of the dunyā and does not claim to be kāmil as this is also a branch of dunyā.

     He should not have love for money, and should not be greedy for worldly accumulation. Normally, we just understand dunyā in terms of monetary, financial, property assets and gain, but he says that one aspect of dunyā is also a claim to be perfect. A person should not claim to be kāmil, nor view themselves to be kāmil. Why? Because this is also a branch of the dunyā. What he means is that this is one aspect of fame – so dunyā isn’t just about monetary acquisition, but it is also about fame and recognition.


    4. He has spent time in the company of a Shaykh-e-Kāmil himself. 

    There were some people who came to Hadrat Thānwī for 10 days, for 40 days, for two weeks – there are many stories, but obviously those people were seriously already sālihīn muttaqīn, sahib-e-adab, sahib-e-‘ilm, sahib-e-tahajjud.

    5. Level-headed, unprejudiced ‘ulamā and pious people, who are his contemporaries, consider him to be a good person. 

    These are people who aren’t partisans – it means they are accepting of any silsilā. Hadrāt Thānwīs temperament was like this. They also should view the shaykh in a favourable light. An ‘ālim or a sufī shaykh who is not bay’ah to that person should view him to be a good person – you can consider this like a third party independent evaluation.

     6. He should have more elite followers (in other words, learned and pious people) than laymen. 

    You cannot judge a shaykh based on his popularity with the masses; rather, you have to judge his acceptance amongst those who are on dīn (people who are on some level of ‘amal), and those who are of understanding, wisdom and experience (sensible people)




    7. The majority of his murīds should adhere to the sharī’ah and have no desire for the dunyā.

     Those who have been murīd for some time, the majority of them should then be living a life, which is according to sharī’ah, and they should not be having desire for the world. The proof is in the pudding – if the company of the shaykh is having an effect that people who join him and spend some time, their level of ‘amal and sharī’ah goes up, and their attraction to the world goes down, then that is a sign of a kāmil shaykh.

    8. He should teach and guide his murīds with all his heart and truly desire their reformation, and if he sees or hears of anything bad that they have done, he should reprimand them immediately. 

    He should not leave his murīds to do as they please. The shaykh tries to train the murīd with an open dedicated heart, with the best of his efforts. The shaykh should truly desire that their islāh and tazkiyah is done – his effort, goal and dream should be to bring the students on the path of taqwā and tazkiyah.

    9. One should feel that his love for Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā increases and his love for the dunyā decreases after spending just a few days in the company of this shaykh. 

    By staying with him a few days, the person should feel in their heart that their love for dunyā has declined and love for Allāh has increased.

    10. He should do dhikr and spiritual exercises himself, because, without a firm intention to practice, one will not benefit from what he is taught. 

    The shaykh should have done the dhikr himself. He will not be able to benefit in the transmission of those teachings, which he did not practise himself. If someone possesses these qualities, don’t look at whether or not he does any karamāt (miracles), or whether or not he knows hidden or future occurrences, or whether or not his every du’ā is accepted, or whether or not he can do miraculous things with his inner power, because it is not necessary for a shaykh or walī to possess these abilities


    That person who has the aforementioned signs, that is sufficient. Here, Hadrat Thānwī isn’t denying karamāt, but that is not part of the training, nor a requirement, nor is it part of the efficacy. Karamāt are those miracles given to non-anbiyā’. There is a certain but limited function and value to tawajjuh and bātinī quwwat. It is not even necessary to get this inner power. Three centuries before him, Imām Rabbānī, Mujaddid Alf Thānī wrote the same thing; even the Brahmins, Yogis and Gurus can do this. There are even stories where there was a claim a Hindu was giving tawajjuh to the speakers during a debate, and Mawlānā Saharanpurī was informed to cast tawajjuh back – and there was a battle of the tawajjuhs between the Aryahs and the Muslims meanwhile. Aryahs claimed to be monotheistic Hindus, and they used this concept to convince the Hindus to stay Hindu and not move to Christianity and Islam.So what does it mean? Hadrat Thānwī is telling you that a non-Muslim can do this.

    The best I‘ve been able to understand this is let’s say for example, lets take your physical body. A non-Muslim can workout and get physical muscle strength; just like that, a non-Muslim who stays away from sin (although they don’t do it for the sake of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā) - just like a non-Muslim who gives charity, but they are atheist, and so he doesn’t do it for the sake of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā.Hadrat Thānwī rahimahullāh writes in another book that a shaykh should not give so much tawajjuh to the murīd, to the point where the murīd becomes dependent on this tawajjuh. The murīd will end up in a delusion – they will think they have ended up on some spirituality, but it isn’t their own. They will be tricked – he wasn’t suggesting that the shaykh is trying to trick the murīd, but he is saying this will end up happening without him realising. Some people feel high spiritually with tawajjuh, but then fall right back. What does it mean? Tawajjuh is only a temporary thing. Just like the jumpstart concept; the second you take off the jumper cables, the engine of the old car goes back to being the engine of the old car. It is not enough. The heightened spirituality that a person experiences due to the tawajjuh of the shaykh is a temporary short-lived thing. It is supposed to just push them to become a dhākir sālik. That was what happened classically – the murīd would got the shaykh, and spend a few days to get a boost – and then they would go make their own effort afterwards. It’s not much very different from the concept of Ramadān. In this month, Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā gives us a boost, but our problem is that we go right back to how we were in Shawwāl. What is supposed to happen was the boost of Ramadān was supposed to raise us to at least maintain us. Our spirituality wasn’t meant to go back to how it was before Ramadān. Every year Ramadān comes up to raise us, and we go flat. Every salāh raises us, and we go flat before the next one even comes.



    GUIDELINE FIVE: THE PURPOSE OF PĪRĪ-MURĪDĪ 

    When one finds a shaykh-e-kāmil and wishes to become his murīd, one should first understand what the objective of becoming a murīd is because people have many ulterior motives when it comes to this. Some do it so that they can perform karāmāt (miracles) or so that, through kashf, they can know things that others don’t know. From the third guideline, we have just learned that it is not even necessary for the shaykh to perform karāmāt or get kashf of unseen things that others don’t know, so where can the poor murīd ever hope for such things? Some people think that, by becoming a murīd, his shaykh is responsible for his forgiveness and that he won’t go to Jahannam on the Day of Judgment no matter how terrible the sins that he perpetrates are. This is also completely wrong. Even Rasūlullāh ﷺ told his beloved daughter, Fātimah (radiyAllāhu ‘anhā): “O’ Fātimah! Save yourself from the fire!” In other words, do good deeds (and abstain from sins).

     Some also think that the shaykh will make them kāmil by just glancing at them and that they will neither have to make any effort, nor give up any sins. Love of the shaykh, love for the shaykh, love from the shaykh, and company of the shaykh – she had all of that with the Prophet ﷺ, but he still told her that you, yourself, will have to save yourself from the Fire of Hell. This means that you will have to practise on the teachings of dīn

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    If that was the case, the sahābah would not have had to do a single thing. Who can be more kāmil than Rasūlullāh ﷺ? Though there have been instances where a certain pious man has done this as a form of karāmāt, it does not mean that this karāmāt occurs all the time, nor does every walī perform this karāmāt. To have hope and think that, ‘this will happen to me’ (and thus sit back and do nothing) is a grave error. To say that one should go into an ecstatic state of spirituality, jump around making a big noise, shouting Allāhu Akbar, sins should leave on their own, the desire to sin should just disappear, that one does not have to even make an intention to do good deeds but that they should be done involuntarily, that the whisperings of shaytān and all apprehension should disappear on its own, and that one should be in a perpetual state of oblivion... although it is better than all the aforementioned opinions, it is a sign of ignorance and misinformation.


    All the above-mentioned occurrences are called “kayfiyāt” and “hālāt” and are beyond the ambit of man’s control. Although these hālāt are very wonderful, they are not the objective. Something can only be an objective if it can be attained through one’s own efforts and volition. Deep reflection brings us to the conclusion that the nafs has a sinister plan behind all these desires. Upon deep analysis, it is clear it a ploy of the nafs if one wants to experience all these states and conditions. When hāl comes in, nafs knows it can stay.

    When kayfiyāt come in, nafs knows it can stay. The nafs tries to divert a person to that dīn and tasawwuf which won’t affect it. Just like some of the youth at university, the nafs might divert a person to activism, conferences and late- night sessions over the problem of the ummah. The nafs knows he can have a conversation regarding the problems of the ummah until 1am, at the expense of his Fajr. What you consider separation and union (with the beloved) are both equal. To desire from Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā anything besides Him is lamentable. Wasl is the intihā of qurb (as much qurb a person can get without obviously becoming one with Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā). The poet here is saying wasl (union) and farq (separation) is your own self-made understanding – they are both actually equal to each other. All you need is for Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā to be pleased with you.

     As an example, if you spend a day in which your whole 24 hours were according to sunnah and sharī’ah, then that means you have attained the pleasure of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā. You don’t need to feel something which you deem ‘wasl’. Rather than tracking your own mythical concept on whether you have wasl or farq with Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā, you should see whether you have wisāl or firāq on the path of His pleasure. If you feel you have wasl with sharī’ah, it means you have the pleasure of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā. If you have firāq with sharī’ah, meaning you are distant from it, or you’re violating it, going against it, it means you don’t have the pleasure of Allāh subhānahu wata’āl.



    Furthermore, such a person (who has the wrong understanding) will surely face one of two situations, because he will either experience these kayfiyāt or not. If he does, he will think he is kāmil, as his understanding of tasawwuf was that he has to experience these things in order to be kāmil. As a result, he will become negligent regarding taqwā and ‘ibādāt and if he does not think that he does not need ‘ibādāt, he will definitely trivialize its importance. However, if he does not experience it, he will die of depression and despair. Some say ‘my shaykh has some very good ‘amal so I will just fetch a ta’wīz from him if need be’, or ‘My shaykh’s du’ās are readily accepted so, if I have any court cases or worldly problems, I will just go to him to make du’ā for me and all my work will pan out just as I want it to’. It is as though they deify their shaykh. That is a kind of inner shirk since they were supposed to turn to Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā. They will start attributing divine help to their shaykh. Some murīds think that they will become blessed people to such an extent that others will get cured if they just blow on them or if they merely pass their hands over them. In fact, such people think that these actions and their effects constitute piety. Since this has nothing to do with piety and their intention itself is tantamount to desiring the dunyā, it is just one blunder after the next. Some think that the benefit of doing dhikr and doing spiritual exercises is that you will start to see some nūr. This is also completely erroneous and ridiculous, because, firstly, it is not necessary for one to start seeing nūr or hearing voices when he does dhikr and spiritual exercises, nor is seeing such nūr etc. the objective of dhikr and spiritual exercise. Some people want a spiritual regimen, which will result in them seeing lights and hearing voices. This isn’t necessary, nor is it the purpose of dhikr. Imām Rabbānī rahimahullāh says if you want to see lights, then you should go see a light show. Go watch a laser light show; if this is what you want, then there are better ways to get it. If you want to feel vibrations, then get an electric massager or a vibrating chair. You will never be sad since it is just dependent on a switch.



    The purpose is tadhakkur, which means your heart focuses so much on the remembrance of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā that you lose all awareness other than the repetition of that name. It means you lose yourself in the dhikr. The next thing after tadhakkur is tabattul, which is that the dhikr itself leads you the remembrance of the Being named by that name. Through the dhikr of the ism (name), you get the remembrance of the Musammā (the Being named by that name). That is what Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā said in Qur’ān; Wa-dhkur-isma Rabbik, wa tabattal ilayhi tabtīlā [73:8] And remember the name of your Lord, and devote yourself to Him with complete devotion.


    That is why someone people say the maqām of ihsān in salāh for ordinary people is enough to even feel the meanings of what is being said, and the meaning can transport someone to the feeling. Sometimes when you enter the feeling, this becomes in the foreground, and the meaning or the particular wording goes in the background. For example, if there is a verse regarding the fear of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā, then if you are able to feel the feeling of fear, then no doubt the wordings and the meanings brought you to that fear, but once you feel the feeling, it transcends that particular verse. The verse may have been talking about the fire of Hell, but you’re feeling absolute pure fear of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā. You’re feeling fear of sins, of Hell, of standing in front of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā – you use that verse which had one layer of meaning to go straight to the feeling, and now you are no longer bound by the words. If during that time, you happen to see a light, then what benefit would the light have, when you have got the feeling – that was the purpose! So the same thing, when a person does dhikr, the purpose is to get the feeling of the dhikr. You feel so focused – that is the feeling. Nabī ﷺ said that you should worship Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā as though you see him; that is the feeling.


    Whatever ahwāl and kayfiyāt a person may get in this world, it will never be equal to the ahwāl and kayfiyāt a person will get in Jannah. So if you really still stubbornly insist you want the ahwāl and kayfiyāt, you should really want it in Jannah. There will be a certain hāl and kayfiyat a person will experience when they get the glorious vision of the beauty of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā. That delight will only be experienced if you enter Jannah. There will be a delight and pleasure in knowing Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā is pleased with us; there will be a delight and pleasure in being the beloved of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā. People often focus on the physical pleasures of Paradise, but even in terms of spiritual pleasure, raptures and ecstasies, the absolute spiritual pleasure, raptures and ecstasies are in Paradise. Our job is to get in Jannah – and that is done through the worship, obedience and remembrance of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā. The greatest barakah isn’t that your worldly problems will go away, but the greatest blessing is that Jahannam will become harām on that person. The greatest blessing is that your ākhirah problems go away. Having a worry-free worldly life is in fact impossible anyway; you can never have a worry-free worldly life, but you could have a worry-free ākhirah life.


    The definition of Bay’at and Pīri-Murīdi: The reality of this relationship is that the shaykh makes the commitment to teach and explain thr dhikr, and to try to inspire and motivate the student to follow the commandements of Allāh subhānahu wata’ālā; and that the student should attest and make a firm intention to practise upon whatever he has been instructed, and to implement all the tips and practises to improve my practise on sharī’ah. By adopting and entering into this formal relationship, the benefit is that the shaykh will give more attention and be more focused to that individual. The student will take what the shaykh says more seriously. It is just like the example of the auditor and registered student; they can both listen to lessons, but when the student is formally registered, the profressor tracks him a bit more (compared to the auditor), and the student by formally registering also normally is more careful and conscientious in regards to what the professor said. If you take that to a further level, that you aren’t only a registered student, but now that professor is your supervisor/advisor/thesis supervisor too, then it goes further up. If you take him as your PhD supervisor, it goes even further up. These are formalised relationships; the more you formalise it, the more the commitment, and the more someone becomes commited, the learning takes place deeper and more. It has also been established from various ahādīth that placing one’s hand into that of another during a pledge or pact is a good thing. Accordingly, it has been mentioned in a hadīth that Rasūlullāh ﷺ would take the hands of those who wished to pledge allegiance to him into his own blessed hands. Furthermore, for ladies to hold a cloth etc. is in place of holding the hand.


    If you view your shaykh to be the best shaykh in the world in an absolute way, a few problems arise. Problem 1: You may start to look down on other mashā’yikh, or other silsilas. You will end up in partisanship. Other problems: It can lead to competition, to rivalry, to ‘ujub, to arrogance etc. So relative, specific and particular to yourself, you should think that my mission of tazkiyah will be best accomplished through my shaykh, and not that my shaykh has to be the best shaykh in the whole world. If you view this statement relatively, you will get the benefit of it further cementing your relationship. To give you an example, once someone gets accepted into university, one should think that the way my university has designed this course, it is the best way for me to get my Economics degree. If you sit around, and you start searching websites, researching other universities and thinking they are better, you won’t learn well. You will be distracted and diverted from attaining your goal